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Sexism Schism: The Tech Dom

I love dominants. I mean I love them, but lets face it, sometimes their assertiveness can morph into aggression, and sometimes their confidence can become ‘asshole’.  Thinking more about this post on sexual discrimination on a personal level, I realized I have a particular and very unique problem with something called ‘The Tech Dom’.  First, add this all up:

I’m the only woman in my industry who MAKES violet wands, engineers and designs and PRODUCES violet wand gear.

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In fact, I’m the only person in North America who MAKES violet wands.

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I was the front person who made violet wands popular and available.

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I have worked with the notable violet wand educators over the years to set standards and definitions and terms.

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I have worked with those same educators to spread violet wand information far and wide, and do product research and development, and beta testing.

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I’m the only person in the world making advanced violet wand products.

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I’m the only person in the world producing internal, insertable violet wand electrodes.

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I’ve been MAKING violet wands, and PRODUCING handblown violet wand electrodes, and PRODUCING quality violet wand gear for 20 years, and in this business, longer than anyone else

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I’m unique at what I do, and I’m good at what I do.

So WHAT THE hell is it about these laughably ignorant ‘dominant’ men who 1) Don’t do what I do and 2) CAN NOT do what I do, that BECAUSE they CANT do it, that they try to tell me (and others) that I can’t possibly be doing it either?  Just because THEY can’t?

A friend of mine calls these people ‘Tech Doms’, in that they can’t stand that they are not the ‘EXPERT’ in this tech field of violet wands and I am. They spend a lot of time posturing and I’m their cock blocker.  Because it is very high tech, using tesla coils and circuit boards and electromagnetic principles and having to research the conductivity of the human body in order to create some amazing technical, kinky products, and they seem to claim tech as ‘their thing’.

Oh sweetcheeks, I was putting the violet wand skin effect myth to rest, back in 2000 when you were still a smelly teenager.  I was helping the International Violet Wand Guild’s dead piggy research before you were of legal age to consent to anything.  Yeah, what they know about violet wands they learned from ME (through one form of my influence or another), and they try to tell ME about violet wands?  Especially when they try to take credit for the things they learned from ME or from my body of work–that’s a uniquely special kind of sexism.

They can’t do what I do.  AND THEY HATE THAT. I’m the leader in this field and they hate it. My husband says they hate me because I’m not humble.  tsk tsk.  I guess that’s too bad.  My body of work is a totality of over 20 years.  I have every right to be proud of my one-of-a-kind accomplishments. So……..Like bad puppy dogs, I’m happy to rub their noses in their shitty brand of tech sexism. Have some more of what I can do, and that you can’t. Bad dog!! Bad!

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